some thoughts of mine~

-I-
why condemned specific authority when the main problem is actually caused by us?
I've said this before...
we cannot change people for who they are...
unless it's their own will to open up their hearts for changes...
certain authority really have done a lot, enough said... but we being ignorant simply doesnt make it easier for them...
now who's to be blame here??
though some may say that it is not totally us... but it's some of us...
but hey, majority kills minority...

-II-
i dont know the right saying but many great ideas came from craps...
but we Malaysian tends to laugh at people when they are expressing their own ideas...
being a courtesy Malaysian, it's normal for us to be ashamed and feel humiliated by the laughters people gave...
and that's the point when we kill those innocent fresh ideas...
thus, we keep living in this world of our own...
WORLD OF STUPIDITY... *is that even a word?? sorry~ my english is a no doubt bad~

-III-
parenting in Malaysia...
once my mom, her friend and I went for some club...
then this topic went up...

scenario 1:
European way of parenting...
Son: Mom, we had some calculus test today...
Mom: Really? So did u gave ur best on it?
Son: I guess so...
xxx
Son: Mom, the result went out today n i did really bad...
Mom: Really? But u gave ur best right?
Son: yes i did... but with my result, it's worthless
Mom: dont be like that.. it's like ur quitting... u've done ur best and u should have no regret... afterall, it's not like u'll always fail... try harder next time and i know u can do it...

scenario 2:
Malaysian way of parenting...
Son: Mom, we had some calculus test today...
Mom: Really? So how did u do?
Son: it's really tough anyway...
xxx
Mom: so how was ur result? did u get an A??
Son: Sorry Mom... i got C...
Mom: What?? a C??? that's what u get for keep prancing around!!!
Son: But mom, i've tried my best... besides the whole class got the same grade... even lower than mine...
Mom: u're different from them!! u should get an A! what am i supposed to say to my friends now?? if only u have studied harder, it should be fine!!! u're a disgrace to our family *this is a lil' bit over-exaggerating
Son: ...
Mom: How can u not be like ur brothers and sisters? they never get a C for their calculus!! u r too much with fooling around... bla, bla, n bla~

spot the difference?