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Friday, August 21, 2009

SELAMAT BERPUASA

happy fasting dear friends~
this will be a great month since i'm on my mission to get my old shape back...
i've said this on the previous fasting month... but nothing much changes since I dont do sport...
but having some friends that willingly to play during this fasting month surely will help me a lot!!
and guys,
please dont ask me if i'm fasting or not...
i'll answer only once...
yes, i do join u guys fasting since it is not a mistake by law or by religion...
but i dont think i should really answer since whether i answer honestly or not,
u are still with your perception that i'm not fasting....
dont argue... i've been in the situation for 2 years in a row and i damn know well!!
whatever it is...
SELAMAT BERPUASA~

Thursday, August 20, 2009

some thoughts of mine~

-I-
why condemned specific authority when the main problem is actually caused by us?
I've said this before...
we cannot change people for who they are...
unless it's their own will to open up their hearts for changes...
certain authority really have done a lot, enough said... but we being ignorant simply doesnt make it easier for them...
now who's to be blame here??
though some may say that it is not totally us... but it's some of us...
but hey, majority kills minority...

-II-
i dont know the right saying but many great ideas came from craps...
but we Malaysian tends to laugh at people when they are expressing their own ideas...
being a courtesy Malaysian, it's normal for us to be ashamed and feel humiliated by the laughters people gave...
and that's the point when we kill those innocent fresh ideas...
thus, we keep living in this world of our own...
WORLD OF STUPIDITY... *is that even a word?? sorry~ my english is a no doubt bad~

-III-
parenting in Malaysia...
once my mom, her friend and I went for some club...
then this topic went up...

scenario 1:
European way of parenting...
Son: Mom, we had some calculus test today...
Mom: Really? So did u gave ur best on it?
Son: I guess so...
xxx
Son: Mom, the result went out today n i did really bad...
Mom: Really? But u gave ur best right?
Son: yes i did... but with my result, it's worthless
Mom: dont be like that.. it's like ur quitting... u've done ur best and u should have no regret... afterall, it's not like u'll always fail... try harder next time and i know u can do it...

scenario 2:
Malaysian way of parenting...
Son: Mom, we had some calculus test today...
Mom: Really? So how did u do?
Son: it's really tough anyway...
xxx
Mom: so how was ur result? did u get an A??
Son: Sorry Mom... i got C...
Mom: What?? a C??? that's what u get for keep prancing around!!!
Son: But mom, i've tried my best... besides the whole class got the same grade... even lower than mine...
Mom: u're different from them!! u should get an A! what am i supposed to say to my friends now?? if only u have studied harder, it should be fine!!! u're a disgrace to our family *this is a lil' bit over-exaggerating
Son: ...
Mom: How can u not be like ur brothers and sisters? they never get a C for their calculus!! u r too much with fooling around... bla, bla, n bla~

spot the difference?

Saturday, August 15, 2009

If - Rudyard Kipling

remember this guys?
these r some advises from a father to his son...
and it should be a great lesson for all of us for the sake of becoming a better person in the future...

If you can keep your head when all about you

Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:

If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!

thanks to Babas for posting this 1st...
it does really reminiscent me of how much i love this poem the moment i read it when i was 11 or 12...

ragam manusia

hisashiburi minasan!!!
wow...
it's like forever since i last posted anything here...
what to do?
i've added new activity in my routine which is tennis...
and that should be the answer why i rarely post any entry...
i used to write entries during my tennis hour before...
hehe~

anyway...
aku heran kenapa kita tak pernah nak stop nagging...
aku ngan member2 p tapak konvo aritu... tgk2 keadaan...
then dia mulalah komen itu, komen ini bla bla bla...
apa yg dia ckp tu mmg ada betul, tp 1 jer masalah dia...
cakap x pakai otak!!!
kalo dia pakai otak, dia takkan cakap macam tu sebab faham keadaan sebenar...
yg lagi panas, aku try explain keadaan sebenar, tp dia boleh pulak buat2 x faham...
ak ni dala panas baran, kalo ak betul2 lost temper aritu, mmg kn swing r mulut dia tu...
dalah daripada bertolak balik tu sampai ke rumah dia pot pet pot pet...
tension2...

lepas tu ada lg sorang member aku ni...
buat apa nak ajar orang jadi jahat?
ko sorang jadi jahat cukuplah...
budak semangat nak p kelas, ko nak halang buat pa???
ko x faham ke?... bukan semua orang macam kolah...
some people do take their classes, wlupun kelas wajib seriously...
jgn nak smakan kami ngan golongan low class macam ko!!!
ambik ko... ko yg paksa ak pakai term ni...
yang ak x bole blah tu bila ko keluarkan statement mcm ni...

"tak payahla p kelas tu... duniawi jer semua tu"

for me, statement tu da ke arah keagamaan... n fyi, ko xbole nak slahkan ak fkir mcm tu..
people entepret differently n u should know that...
ak x nak bangkang lebih2 sebab fahaman kita berbeza...
nanti ak kena tuduh timbulkan kontroversi plak...
tp kalo betul itu semua duniawi, kenapa ko masih datang kelas2 ko yg lain??
and bukankah menuntut ilmu tu 1 bentuk perjuangan juga??
ko jgnla cakap putar belit ek..
ak rasa sem ni ak nak pangkah ko balik r...
ko ni da terlalu manja!!!
n i dont know why some of my friends still bole tolong dia atas dasar kesian..
my friends, marilah kita bergerak ke arah nak tolong orang jadi baik, kita x cukup baik xpa, jgn tarik orang jadi mcm kita...
think b4 u help...
mmg tiru with sense is good...
tp kalo da tiru 10-15min da siap... tu copy with sense lg ke???
point to wonder~

oh ya...
ada 1 lg...
ak plg benci orang datang mengeluh kat kita...
cakap diri terpinggirla, orang tak suka la... bla bla bla...
then dia tny what's wrong with... kita da kenal n masak ngan perangai dia, kita bgtawla...
then dia pertahankan pulak diri dia cakap that thing is normal...
masalahnya skrg ni, dia ni ad prob ngan diri dia or orang lain?
things that appear normal to him x smestinya nmpk normal di mata org lain...
i dont know about u guys... but is it normal to talk about girls all the time???
and is it normal for even a normal conversation... dia bole masukkan unsur2 18sx yg mmg x releven langsung???
guys maybe suka cerita2 18sx but it is too much kalo buat macam tu...
org annoyed la...
maybe that's y org tak suka bergaul ngan ko...
hmm...
pape jerla...
ragam manusia mmg mcm ni...
itulah yg menceriakan dan menyakitkan hari2 aku....
~smile~

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

i'm back

wow...
lamanya xupdate...
bukan malas...
tp smply no time....
tambah plak ngan internet...
nak urus LI...
h1n1...
aigo....
kerja sampingan yg kn suru buat lg~
aigoo...
student life = busy
ada stuju??
btw, going back this friday...
byk ckp ak buang duit n masa since by monday next week i'll be back..
lgpn jumaat lepas tu da start mid sem break...
whateverla... aku tak kesah pun...
lepas jumaat... blah trus... maybe nek teksi jer kot... malas nak amik bus~
next week plak ak mid term bioseparation engineering...
hopefully dpt jawab...
hmm.. k la~
xde idea actually ni...
lma x blogging~